For people mid-journey
The place for people who are still showing up.
Share your real struggle and get genuine support from people who get it. No names, no photos, no performance.
Android coming soon
Free to start. No real name required.
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Built different. On purpose.
Not social media. Not therapy. Something new.
Steadyfy exists in the space between, where you can be honest without being performative, and supported without being managed.
Social media
No follower counts on you. No likes on your face. No algorithm deciding your worth.
A support group
No scheduled sessions, no sharing on cue, no pressure to respond. Quiet support, on your terms.
Therapy
We’re not a replacement for professional help. We’re the people beside you between appointments.
Mission: Steady
[ˈste-dē] adjective
Still going, even on the hard days.
- Showing up, and someone sees it.
- Not defined by what happened to you.
Who will you be when you stop carrying it alone?
The thing you can’t say to friends, say it here, without your name. Someone sees it. Over time, it starts to feel lighter.
No names, no likes, no pressure. That’s our whole mission.
About Steadyfy
What if your story can help someone going through the same thing?
Nobody should go through a hard time alone. What you’ve been through might be exactly what someone else needs to hear.
Share one honest line, without your name. Someone who’s been there checks in. Day by day, you keep going.
No likes. No followers. Just people helping each other stay steady.
What we value
Show up
You don’t have to be doing well. You just have to keep going. Showing up is enough.
Be real
Say what’s really going on. No name, no photo, nothing to perform.
Be kind
Answer the way you’d want to be answered. Gently, honestly, and without judging.
Keep going
Bad days count too. Nothing resets. What happened to you is not who you are.
How it works
Say it once. Let someone answer.
No profile to build, no audience to win. Just one honest line, and people who’ve been there.
1Tonight
Light your window
Write one true sentence about what you’re working on, or say it out loud. You get a random name. Nobody sees your face, your contacts or your past.
Takes about a minute
2Often within hours
Someone shows up
Strangers who’ve lived it leave a check-in: what worked for them, a few small steps, or just “me too”. You choose whether you want advice.
No likes, no comments, no pile-ons
3Over weeks
Write the next chapter
When something shifts, add to your story. Bad weeks count too. Nothing resets, so you can always pick up where you left off.
Chapters, not streaks
Inside the app
This is what tonight looks like.
No sign-up wall to peek behind. Here’s the real thing.
Everything you need
Built for the long game. Not the good week.
Every part of Steadyfy is built around one idea: showing up again matters more than showing up well.
Nobody knows it’s you
No real name. No photo. Your username is a random word pair. Show up as whoever you need to be.
People, not likes
Strangers send anonymous check-ins, not likes. People who genuinely see you.
See who’s sharing
One way to see the feed is a building at night. Each lit window is a real person sharing. Tap one to read what they wrote.
Just the people in your circle
A small room for a few people on the same path. Private and invite-only unless you open it. Check in daily or weekly, with no audience.
When typing isn’t enough
Record a rant or a chapter. Before anyone hears it, your voice is changed to a different one.
Chapters, not streaks
Each update becomes a chapter. Milestones are quietly marked when you reach them. Miss a day and your story is still there.
From the community
The kind of thing people write
“First time in two years I’ve stuck with something for 30 days.”
“Someone who’d been there wrote back. I didn’t feel so alone.”
“I don’t have to explain myself. Just show up.”
“My circle keeps me from quitting on the hard days.”
Safety & privacy
Honest is only possible when it’s safe.
Checked before anyone sees it
Every written post and check-in gets an automatic check first. Threats, self-harm instructions, sexual content and spam are stopped. Swearing and venting aren’t: this is a place to be honest. Heavy posts carry a content warning, so people choose whether to read them.
You decide who reaches you
Turn on Hide rude comments to keep harsher check-ins off your posts. Report or block anyone, any time, and we review every report. If what you write sounds like you’re not safe, Steadyfy shows crisis help for your country straight away.
Your data stays yours
No ads. Nothing sold. Delete a post, or your whole account, whenever you want.
The checks are automatic, and no system catches everything. Nobody is watching posts around the clock, so if you’re in danger, don’t wait on the app: use crisis help or call your local emergency number.
Partners & helplines
Nobody here is on their own. Neither are we.
The people who back Steadyfy, and helplines you can reach right now when you need more than a stranger’s kindness.
Supported by
ElevenLabs supports Steadyfy’s voice features, so people can say it out loud when typing feels like too much.
If you need help right now
- 988 Suicide & Crisis LifelineUnited States · call or text 988Call 988
- Crisis Text LineUS · text HOME to 741741Text HOME
- SamaritansUK & Ireland · call 116 123Call
- Lifeline AustraliaAustralia · call 13 11 14Call
- Find a helplineFree, confidential lines in 130+ countriesFind yours
We point to these services; they aren’t run by Steadyfy. All crisis help →
From the blog
Notes on keeping going.
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Questions
Good to know.
Is it really anonymous?
Yes. You get a random username. You never need to give your real name or a photo, and other people can’t see your email.
Is Steadyfy therapy?
No. It’s peer support from people who’ve been there. If you’re in crisis, use crisis help or call your local emergency number.
Do I have to post?
No. You can read, send check-ins to others, or just look around.
What does it cost?
It’s free to start. No ads, ever.
Can I delete what I write?
Any time. Delete a post, or delete your account and everything with it.
Is it on Android?
iPhone first. Android is coming soon.
You don’t need to be doing well. You just need to still be going.
Show up quietly, witnessed by people who get it.